I normally don't repost from my personal Social Media, but I am sharing FB post from today. I cannot say professionally that #PeopleMatter and then stay quiet about an issue affecting more people and those they love daily. Because when I say that #PeopleMatter at work, then what I really mean is that 'People Simply Matter.'
If your new and improved HR department has actually made it harder and not easier for you to help your team, you might want to re-think your true culture. I lost a co-worker at my last job. Absolutely gut-wrenching. I saw a picture of him again a few days ago from one of my many photos I love taking at work. How could I have helped? Look around your office, take the initiative and please lead the way and do what you can. Here is the post. And please be well.
"If the suicide epidemic is on your mind today like it is mine, here are some things on my heart to consider.
Do we spend all our time in the sadness the rearview mirror holds, or look through the windshield to see all of the opportunity to help and support that lies right in front of us?
While many are facing internal demons and mental health issues we are not personally equipped to handle, not every case is as severe, and many times a community and a sense of community can help.
>Call someone you haven't talked to you in awhile. Your voice alone could make a difference.
>Offer a coffee, a kindness, a shoulder. How long since someone was kind to this person?
>Think mindfully about those around you. Don't make assumptions.
>Seek them out. They won't seek you out.
>Donate $$ to a suicide crisis center. You can always help there, but $ can help immediately.
Times are clearly taking a toll on people. Unkindness, Isolation, Hopelessness. Money, hotlines, medicine... none alone will be the great eradicator.
I feel compelled to add...if you are struggling, ask for help or call a friend before it gets so overwhelming that those things no longer feel like options.
God rest your souls, Kate Spade, Anthony Bourdain and the hundreds who have already joined you since your passing.
We can do better. We have to do better."